Don't confuse comfort with happiness

Sometimes the leaves turn yellow on your houseplant adn you know something is wrong.  You're either watering it too much or not enough.  And you must do something different to make it strong and healthy again.  So it is with your life...

Sometimes your life just needs a change.

Change will only come when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.  Everyone is for change in general, but they're scared of it in particular.  What you did is not important.  What you learned from it is.  All things are difficult before they are easy.